walletpassphrase thisismypassphrase 99999999
Replace "thisismypassphrase" with your encrypted wallet passphrase. This will unlock your Graphene wallet for staking for 1157 days (99999999 seconds = 1157 days). Upon restarting your client you will need to re-enter this command, as it is not saved.
By entering this command and having your wallet encrypted, you will be able to stake your coins whilst having a properly encrypted Graphene wallet.
I am pretty sure the correct code is walletpassphrase thisismypassphrase 9999999