As things stand @cabalism13 has admitted to using $500 for personal use which is completely inappropriate - but I can understand the life or death situation of a family member - wouldn't most of us here do the same and then return that funds back?
If I were him I would've gotten a separate loan from DS for the $500 with a shorter due date... or used one of these lending platforms assuming that the crypto cannot be directly liquidated:
https://spendmenot.com/best/bitcoin-lending-sites/Spending charity money on personal expenses (even on something like this) is not something I'd feel comfortable doing.