Once you do make out a deposit on your own will then no one should be blamed out but only yourself and just like others been saying that it's your fault even though the site does have some lapses too
but in general aspect then you are the ones who do make out such decision and once you lost then its final and you couldn't take it back no matter how you do argue or complaint because this is
regarding your action, not theirs.
Understand the risks involved in gambling and it's on your self-will to know which one is bad and which one should be done.
It seems that OP did not control himself and become paranoid that's why his own mistake he blame stake.com instead of himself.
He is already addicted to gambling for sure he will make a way to gamble than when he loses a lot and start blaming the site/casino.
Little tip Op you must gamble some of your money and not all bet an amount you afford to loss.