I hope I'm wrong, but I think people who open posts like the OP don't have much of a future on the forum. In the internet age, they expect to have everything handed to them on a platter, to be told what to do on a forum.
I also don't want to discourage you if you are sincere, OP. Just keep using the forum regularly, you will learn things there, share what knowledge you have, even if it is scarce, and don't cheat.
Can't blame you for thinking like that because many want to hunt for easy Merits and without the shortcut, they simply give up.
Having been on the forum, we tend to see the same cycle.
This statement of yours looks aggressive to people especially the way you narrow your points, but nevertheless, all of us is arriving at the same areas, even in another perspective i tried to understand exactly your point of statement but i found it very difficult to understand you, but i will like you to portray your points without anger