Op should shift to other crypto gambling sites which suit his requirements and slowly and steadily try hard to reduce his gambling addiction in various ways in order to control it. This is the correct strategy.
I would like your advice to be a good solution, because it would definitely be a pleasant solution for any addicted person. However, in my opinion, just as you can't stop drug addiction by reducing your doses, you can't stop gambling by switching to "more fun" casinos.
OP Needs a Professional help and this cannot be answered by this forum or by requesting a permanent banning in gambling site.
also putting blame against Stake.com is wrong because i see no problem from the site it is OP who expect too much as help when it is clearly this is His own mistake.
But like what Yahoo says above, this is OP's obligation to comply in helps and not blaming anyone.
The case is very complicated, and I'm afraid the truth is just in the middle.
The OP has a problem and Stake.com doesn't make it easy for him.
Of course, in situation of lose, OP tries to get money back, and certainly wouldn't try to give it back in the event of a win.
We shouldn't decide here, but I don't think it would be bad if Stake.com gave this money back anonymously and permanently blocked this user. However, this should be settled privately between these two outside the public.