Sometimes I feel not good after paying a High Fee on ETH, But I want's to know why this?

I feel my emotions with this

Ethereum has now become a chain for whales, if you are just a small person who just doing a little transaction on Etherum, you will just eat by transaction fees especially if you are interacting with a smart contract, with got higher transaction fees to compare to normal transferring Ethereum/ERC20 tokens.
My best solution is find other chain alternative to Ethereum chain, other chains are already proven that cheap transaction fees.