The question here is, what do we call support? It could be food, water, transportation to a safe zone, and weapons to defend their country.
It would be nice to know where are all those donations going because I feel a big piece of cake is used for fighting equipment, and since bitcoin and cryptos are involved in this we can call it the first Crypto-War.
If it is donated to the Ukrainian government, there are many possibilities. It may buy food for civilians or arms, and it may become the private property of some people. Since it has been donated, we have no ability to interfere with the whereabouts of the funds. . But if they use the money to buy arms, I'm sad because I'm calling for peace, which means that my donation is another way of supporting war, and obviously I don't want war.