Mostly people attack or criticize threads without really understanding the context in the content. Before you condemned a thread, you have to understand the "word register", so that it will not affect the OP feelings.
1. Most people won't stop using harsh words or even attack other people just by because it "hurt" other people feeling.
2. If people can't take critic, he should avoid social media and forum without strict moderation.
And those people that condemn work are getting more merits than the OP himself from his own experience.
Could you provide few examples?