You can see all those UTXO from the same address, and you can choose which one you want to spend.
Does it only show UTXOs from the same address, or maybe only from addresses which already fit whichever algorithm you pick? I don't want it to select anything for me, I don't want to have to pick "minimize fees" or "merge coins" - I simply want a list of every UTXO in my wallet with the option to choose the exact ones I want to spend.
Regardless, it's a bit of a theoretical point since I'll never use Ledger Live since it connects to Ledger servers and I don't trust them with my data or privacy one bit.
You can choose any address or utxo you want.
But you are right about the servers, you have to use their servers... só you lose privacy compared to electrum