Bad things can happen to us unexpectedly. We can't always prevent them. But its our actions AFTER they have happened that define who we are. So stop pointing fingers and blaming each other. Come up with a plan and move on!
yeah I had to eat a 70 BTC loss with the collapse of MTgox, it was totally my responsibility. I have moved on wiser for it ; that's why I bought my faircoins on NXT-e then immediately withdrew them to my wallet, no more hot wallets for me.
BTW, MTGox found 470K bitcoins yesterday. They are expected to recover their insolvency