Jalum, I think it's time to relax and look at the big picture. I haven't hurt anybody.
You backed out of a 100 BTC bet after it was clear you lost. You hurt the victor of that bet to the tune of $300-400 (at the time). I'm confident that if you had won that bet and the other party didn't pay you, you'd feel they robbed you of value/stole from you.