What was Putin asking them to do that was unacceptable?
Asking? He was taking, not asking - Donbas and Crimea. That's unacceptable.
Do you approve 2014 CIA organized coup in Ukraine?
Loaded question. The current Ukrainian government was democratically elected. I wouldn't be so sure about Putin's buddy Yanukovych, but it's definitely up to Ukrainians to decide whom they want to elect, not up to Putin.
Do you approve NATO spreading to east, although they promised they won't to Gorbachev?
Loaded question again. It's up to each country to decide if they want to join NATO, not up to Putin.
So I take it you think that Ukraine and subsequently every other country in Europe should just give up and gift themselves to Putin.