There is nothing like paranoia here. Those Legendary members you accuse of not minding their business have seen almost all types of scammers and suspicious users, so they try to put warnings. If you are someone legitimate, then prove that you are legitimate, and you will be trusted.

If you don't like scammers being pointed out, then there is something wrong with you. You might as well look for forums where scammers are free to post anything without any intervention.