The way you are addressing lovesmayfamilis and nutildah as male gender got me confusing, i was told they are female genders, i think we need more clarification.
Nah, it's irrelevant unless nutildah his/herself chooses to make it an issue of it (IMO). Just like how Lauda was very intentionally ambiguous about his/her/their/whateveir gender. Remember all that?
Given that nudtildah changed his avatar on April 1st (which I haven't seen, since I've got avatars ignored), I suspect it's not a harbinger of some grand plans of returning--but the fact that it was changed at all means nutildah is still around and thinking of bitcointalk, and to my eyes that means something. And if you're reading this, nutildah--and I suspect you are--c'mon back to the forum!! It's obvious you've been missed, and we'll all give you a big virtual hug.
I swear, sometimes I wish Lauda, Vod, TMAN, extraelv, Spoetnik, and a handful of other members I'm probably just forgetting about would return all at once and bring some spicy fun back to the forum. It's too bad that Bruno and TECSHARE can't come back, but as for the rest of those above, they're still alive as far as I know. A lot of the fun, drama-laden banter just went away when those members disappeared and I hope at least a few of them decide to rejoin bitcointalk again.