Sometimes is wrong to feed the gays, but sometimes is also wrong to mistreat them and shun their entitlement under the rug. But it is best from experience to treat them like children that want candy in shape of dildos, and you are the suppressed mother that has to hold his hand while the child is screaming towards the window will dildo candy, while you try to focus on speaking with u'r long forgotten friend from college and the brat just doesn't want to shut up about his dildo candy. But you still hold his/her hand cuz its your gay and you need to take care of it.