Thanks for the info about the Translation Lookup Buffer (TLB) issue.
Driver version 390.144
Tried PhonenixMiner 5.4c from the other thread, tried -straps 2 but didnt work. Still needed ethlargement and got to 37 Mh/s
Using nvidia-settings version 390.144
Tried the latest driver a while ago and got really poor hashrate so stuck with what works..
maybe its time to try 4XX?
debian apt has 460.91.03 as latest