1__What if I was the one who made payment first do you guys think I will be able to get it back?
No one know, you shouldn't trust random stranger with your money. Don't trust, verify.
2__what if I was the one who got scammed what will you guys think of me?
Then you become a victim, nothing less and nothing more. If you beg to any users because you've got scammed, that's against forum rules.
1__people who read but don't understand ( these are the people who go to read the comments of others and reply the same way to the comments without reading the threads or think if the person understand what he or she read)
2__people who read and understand (these are the people who read through what ever is given making sure they understand every bit of it. this set of people do not only make use of reading and understanding they also make use of thinking).
Which users you're refers to? I believe anyone who read your stories are understand what you're talking about. I've read you story and you seems to be like a scammer on your post, however you've been send the money back to him. But on some people perspective, your act depends on the users suggest to you. Most people suggest to send back the money, you've send it back. What if many users suggest to not send it back?