Good software should enable both beginner have easy time (automated UTXO selection) while letting intermediate/advance user have control (manually choose UTXO).
Yes, but you need to remember that the average user is no longer Wasabi's target audience. Everything they have done over the last few months has been designed to shift their target audience away from regular people and towards large institutions. They only care about regular users insofar as they provide liquidity to institutions looking to coinjoin.
If the average user loses privacy because they can't select specific UTXOs, too bad. If the average user pays additional fees from UTXOs they didn't want to coinjoin being automatically enrolled, too bad. Automatically enrolling everyone's coins in to coinjoins means that institutions will always have a nice pool of liquidity in which to coinjoin, which is exactly what Wasabi want. They don't care if the average user suffers, as has become blatantly clear by them spying and censoring said users.