I played devil's advocate in a maieutic manner and got passionate about it.  Twitchyseal and I took a diametric stance on the matter which resulted in a heated discussion with a few disrespectful remarks by me. It was a series of unfortunate events, driven by our different weltanschauung. Twitchyseal is the bigger man in my case, and I owe them an apology.
But your case is very much different. My matter is trivial compared to yours.

I am not going to get involved in another scam accusation.
I will leave you with some advice:  Be respectful. Don't be presumptuous with your opinions about other members. Don't deviate from the subject. Stick to the facts and always be honest. You will garner more support this way if your case is true. Good luck.