Go out to bars with your friends, have a few drinks to get some courage & just start talking to girls you find attractive. You won’t be successful every time but whatever, enjoy life whilst you can. If you don’t have many friends then try online dating, loads of people meet girls that way.
You can't find a good girl in bars, and I understand the author needs more than one meeting.
Of course you can, that’s a bit of a generalisation buddy. You start talking to somebody & exchange phone numbers, arrange to go out for dinner etc. How do you think our parents met before the internet existed. Sometimes actually speaking to people in real life is a good thing.