failing to alert the community
an innocent person being trapped.
Both are valid points. I haven't voted on the Flag because there are arguments for both sides.
When, after the disaster, I asked someone IRL why he didn't tell me about his financial problems instead of creating a web of lies, he said it was because he's ashamed. It gave me a "fake it till you make it" feeling, and I still think that's what "Lucy" was hoping for.