The problem is not in the forum and most of its users, but in the fact that there are certain users who are very easy on the feedback trigger, they have been doing it for years and no one can do anything to them, and they are in the DT system.
When I said "the forum", I meant it's users. And indeed, it's not all of them, but there's enough red tagging going around to scare Newbies. I like to ask myself: "does my red tag make the forum a better place?", and if not, I shouldn't tag the user.