For me, family has always come first. Even my career. Whenever I had to choose, I chose the first option. I gave my all so that my spouse and children would feel comfortable and safe. But later on I discovered my wife's emotional cheating and after that I didn't want to try at all, and understandably family took a backseat. On 111 I read different ways to find out about this infidelity and I don't regret it. After all, I'd rather know everything and feel bad than remain a fool or a deer.