I am currently in the market for an exceedingly smooth, low recoil 45 (or maybe 9mm... capacity?  Stopping power??? ).  I want, as I terminally perforate the bastard who is coming into my house to harm my family, not to put any undue stress on my wrist.

So I will be trying out a plethora of options at the local range.  Will let anyone curious know what I discover.

Suggestions welcome.

Yes.  I am doing this on purpose.  This is sort of like when someone on twitter starts posting things to get unfollows.  I am looking for ignores.  Also Monero matters!  OK... I don't REALLY want Jay to ignore me, so I take it back.  Sort of.