Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.
What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling
Will you Stop 
What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling
Will you Stop a girlfiriend and will later become our partner I will follow him because our partner will definitely give the best for us, if it is not detrimental and is constructive for the sake of the future for both of us I will obey because in a relationship there must be mutual understanding and calculation for the impact possible