Society nowadays doesn't seem like anything we grew up in, it's so complex and diverse that I can't help but wonder if this is where my kids are going to grow up and how do I manage.
While growing up fraudulent activities, prostitution, and others were seen as heinous crimes whereas today it is seen as a norm. How do I send my children out to society even with a thorough upbringing and not be afraid not knowing what society will through at them? It frightens me. Can't help but wonder.
Training your kids in influenced so much by environment. An environment where all adults smoke will produce a kid that will smoke, likewise environment where hi spirits are taken, where gambling is rampant. That is why parents must pay clear attention to the environment they bring up their children.
That being said, you can train your child by yourself and instill in the kid the guts to resist peer group influence. You don't need to coerce your child to not do bad. If you do that, others will influence the kid against your orders. But if you explain in details why the kid shouldn't be involved in wrong lifestyle the kid would understand and resist.