I like everything you have, but why "Creat the fear of God in them"? Do you think fear is a good thing to teach your child?
It all sums up on your belief, if you think that it's good and the best teaching to have them fear God, teach them based on what you belief. But if you don't have any belief when it comes to these things, still teach them to at least obey you as your parent and have them fear of your anger upon doing bad things.After making them realize that they did the wrong thing as you saw them your anger, you'll just have to calm down and show them that the next time they do it, you'll be the same and there's the comfort that you'll show to them.
It's all about being responsible as a parent but yeah, each parent has their own way of disciplining their children. It may work for the others and not for you so, find your best way to discipline them.
The reason to teach the children about God is, it's hard to learn when you are an adult, and have already made up your mind.
The logical reason for teaching about God is something like this...
If people don't know about God, where are they going to get training to live with other people properly? If you don't have training about and from God, what laws are you going to follow? The laws you have are laws that have been set in place because of God training. We all obey those laws naturally, because somewhere in the past, our ancestors believed in God, and the laws from God have been handed down in, at least, some small way.
There isn't any law training without God. Even Buddhism (has no clear God) doesn't clearly and concisely present laws to the people. The simple idea of God is about authority so that laws are required, because a Greater Authority requires them.
So, why do we need laws? Without laws we remain savages regarding other people. With laws we know how to act with other people so that we can form relationships, and can build cities together, and do other great works together.
This whole life is built on God, already. Teach the children about God so that they live in the best relationship with others that they can... so there is peace, and improvement in life.
