A hacked/leaked personal information is more harmful than getting robbed.
What could be so worse than getting robbed? But I understood what you are talking about. KYC is extremely dangerous, that is true. If the data is leaked and hackers know about it, no one knows who could be the victims of a phishing attack, even if someone is able to avoid those types of online attackers, how about physical attackers. You are not wrong.
People should know that KYC does not mean safety nor guarantee security, only the advantage is that if someone have access to its email and forgot his or her password, he can be able to easily reset its password and be able to have access to its account.
Phishing attacks are I think easier to avoid. There are signs to know them like if the site has a weird url or a typo than the original site you are going to visit then that's an example of a phishing attempt. Physical attackers on the other hand are unavoidable because you will be attacked directly and threatened that if you don't obey on what they want you will get hurt.
I think when that scenarios occur, it's better if you can just surrender your stuff as life is more important. We can still be able to report them later on and clear out our names if our identity or kyc is misused. @the OP, have you checked the Chinese boards
here? Since what you are looking for is a Chinese website.