DireWolfM14, I've exhausted efforts to resolve this directly with Fatman.
Put simply I've given him every chance but find him to be a very dishonest individual. If we are to invoke 'discord discussions' there will be lengthy submissions including several verifiable instances of Fatman's dishonesty which including his actions under the alias 'Namtaf Arret' and other instances.
The terms are abundantly clear, including the fact that a decision in any dispute should be on the sole basis of the terms themselves.
As noted here:
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5413494.msg60963629#msg60963629It is plainly inappropriate that (FatMan) would seek any post-facto debate, submissions or alterations in respect of the terms, and/or to potentially seek to impose the same on the escrow providers.
DireWolfM14 please make your decision as instructed by the terms without taking consideration for any aspects other than the terms themselves.