Marriage
Marriage, really! I have seen some people that don't comply with this idea as a necessity to life. That doesn't make it right or seems like the best of ideas though.
Life is a puzzle, I can go with that idea and it's only left for one to pick up the pieces and fit together to paint the sort of picture that would be appealing to you and that depends solely on your fittings of the pieces.
One thing I've come to understand and accept about life is, it ain't fair and all the forces to it is against you. Even as a religious believer, there is a part called 'Temptation or a testing'. Why should you be tested in the first place...
As a human capable of thinking and solving problems, you ought to do that. Think and solve your problems as they come and never expecting any accolade or help from anyone. Life gets a lot easier that way.
Yeah I've also seen alot of people, especially ladies preferring to be baby mamas rather than wife.
I've also seen some young men also preferring children outside marriages, and In my country, most people also demand that, the wife gets pregnant first before any marriage plans commences.
Me also as a religious person, i believe in the holy matrimony, where a woman shall be legally married to their husband and I've also preferred marriages and treated it as one achievement a man can boast of.
Life even as a puzzle, has never been fair if not to all but to majority of its inhabitants.
Picking up the pieces is one task and knowing where to put them, is another task on it's on.
We've heard and seen cases of people born with golden spoons and birthed in generational wealth, do they also see life as a puzzle?
There are alot of undiscovered talents out there, who despite all their efforts and struggles with embodied talents wouldn't get noticed.
Remember the holy bible said "I know you, even before you were born". And "I know the end, from the beginning".