It's ironic that you have to talk about XMR without ignoring Bitcoin. This gets show which one is "real" and which other one was a copycat or was inspired by the other one
Im not pretending on the veracity of my claims, it better be called my observational opinion
Start by reading the
white paper, maybe you will understand the main purpose of Bitcoin
Im too old for trying to figure it out in a such a proper way, but still grateful for Yours attempts