Dem nor dey ask He-goat where im sleep. Na whether im wake from sleep or not dem dey ask am.
Meaning and usage: This proverb is usually applicable in philandering/flirting situations. It simply means that every beneficiary should be contented with what they're getting from their benefactor once they're able to get what is due to them instead of seeking to prevent the benefactor from dishing out same goodies to others.

Let me break it down. A woman whose husband keeps side-chicks shouldn't be bothered with what he does outside but be concerned that the husband plays the good guy at home by taking up family responsibilities.

@Hyconic, I go give you half of d mark because of the "flirt" wey you mention there. Na only you come close to the answer.