I will recommend Electrum, for bitcoin. Or Bluewallet.
Yes, these are 2 the best options in my opinion too. Electrum unfortunately is for android only and it's UI is far from nowadays standards, but it comes from trusted developers.
Bluewallet is fine for everyday use, for normal wallets or lightning.
In general if wallets allows you to specify to which server you want to connect and especially if it allows you to connect to your own Electrum server, that's a big argument for using it.