I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.
Most of the activities based here are facts not feelings and there were times I wrote on topics and deep down my heart, I was expecting some real much accolades but ended up with nothing but lots of criticism, at some points I was letting my feelings decide for me but I stopped and started facing reality and then I realized life in general is about facts and not feelings.
I have felt that way too in the past whenever I get the notification that my posts, reply has been deleted by the moderator or moved to archival. Or rather when I get a very cold comment. But then it is the reality of life. a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor. Getting your facts right is doing your research, studying the post structure of top members. Getting your feelings in check entails developing a thick skin.