I've spent some good quality time on here in the forum and I've realized it's factor not feelings.
Most of the activities based here are facts not feelings and there were times I wrote on topics and deep down my heart, I was expecting some real much accolades but ended up with nothing but lots of criticism, at some points I was letting my feelings decide for me but I stopped and started facing reality and then I realized life in general is about facts and not feelings.
The knowledge in this forum comes in stage by stage.
When you can here newly, you thought it was about feelings but later on you realized that it is about facts. There is still more to learn and at another stage you will understand that it is neither feelings or facts, it is being your real self. Whether you are having feelings or you are rendering facts, you do it as your real self without fear. Then you will appreciate the blessings that comes with being able to do anything (possibly right things) without fear of intimidation or what people will say.