If i'm not online within a week of the surgery happening, it's safe to assume things went bad.
My wife may login to my account and post but I doubt it. She will not be in any shape to care about letting all of you know.
That's the worst-case scenario of course, but assuming you get a donor sooner rather than later I'm not projecting that--but what you wrote is exactly what I meant.
Your wife might not immediately want to reach out to the community, but if she isn't already aware that there are a large number of people here who're rooting for you and care deeply about you and your surgical outcome, might I suggest that you fill her in? Should the worst come to pass, she might eventually come around and reach out to everyone here. Reading what I just wrote sounds selfish, but speaking for myself only, I'd like to know what's happening/happened either way.
It's not easy in this situation to ask your wife to expect the worst while hoping for a miracle or something like that, and I doubt his wife would care about some anonymous people on the forum, this would be the last thing on her mind, the only hope of the forum getting first hand information incase anything goes wrong if there is someone from the forum who knows him outside the forum or has any close relation with his family. If anything were to happen to me, there are a few people in my community who I've met in person who are fully aware of my condition and would notify the forum if anything went wrong. Yahoo, your faith will keep you...
It's always better to have a close relationship with one or two people from the forum because it helps in times like this. I remember when we lost Becky666 last year due to health issues, we were able to contact and support his pregnant wife and family through one of his close friends on the forum.
i appreciate your messages but we are in for Yahooo, I will be okay.