VPN's are allowed on Betfury, also if you are from a region that is denied, you can still access and play on the site using a VPN. This has been confirmed multiple times in this topic and also by livechat. No idea how to delete your user account; probably live chat will be able to help you further.
Could i have the exact wording and who exactly said this. Because if team adviced to do that, that's a huge red flag of luring in potential victims.
Only tactic from their side that made sense to say something like this about VPNs would be that if you get caught when they ask for kyc, they can legally just confiscate your money as it would be your fault not reading the ToS where that country wasn't allowed in to begin with.
Go to livechat and ask this question, they will repeat that you can still access the site by using a VPN even if you are from a restricted region. Until know, I haven't really heard of anyone that needed to submit KYC and haven't heard of any problems of members that are doing this.