Jesus mother lovin' C.  That sucks no matter what the reason for the extractions was, but I have to ask: was that in any way related to your other medical issues?  I doubt it, but you mentioned it and my tired mind starts to wonder. 

Anyway, I'm avidly following this thread and I'm hoping the holidays are at least bearable for you.  This is a majorly stressful time for a lot of people, and with what you've got going on it could either be a really good or a very dark time.  I'm rooting for you, bro.