Hello yahoo62278! I don't really know you as I'm new here but from what I've read about you speaks volume of the kind of person you are and how you've affected lives positively on this forum. I know you're going through a difficult time right now but I want you to know that God has your back and the ugly situation in your life is just a bend and not an end. There's going to be light at the end of the tunnel, and you're going to pull through this. From the bottom of my heart, I pray that you have a smooth and successful surgical operation. I'll keep praying for you.