we are in times when hot wallets are not safe anymore for any quantity of money
That's always been the case.
if someone now wants to put a flag or a red tag on you, then it will be well deserved.
Actually, I believe a Flag is
needed. Doesn't matter if OP did it on purpose or really "got hacked", by ignoring basic safety precautions, this applies:
Due to various concrete red flags, I believe that anyone dealing with this user has a high risk of losing money.