Thanks guys! No luck so far
At some point it becomes far too obsessive and you want to try too many crazy ideas, so I'm just trying to slow down a little and not get too excited to keep my sanity, haha
If you told us which software do you use and what data pattern you've tried, we might able to give some helpful advice such as using the software more efficiently or mentioning another date pattern.
1. your birth date
OP's father birth date and other important dates (such as wedding anniversary) also could work.