.....I am a complete failure - never have ever lucked sided me in my life time
Are you in your 20s, 30s or older? And do you have any goals?
It's not uncommon for people to believe that they are not making any progress, but you do not have to be rich in the eyes of others in order to consider yourself a success in terms of achieving your goals, such as if you are able to have an income that is greater than your expenses and to be able to save and invest in such a way that the money that you invest and save might well allow you to get to some variation of fuck you status, even though it could take a long time to get there.. but anyone can describe fuck you status within there own parameters, but the main idea of fuck you status is being able to have enough income that you do not have to work.. and/or that you can completely elect any work that you choose to do. Sometimes it takes a while to reach goals, yet even making progress towards reaching goals may well be considered success and lucky to some degree.
I agree with what you said... and indeed to achieve something it takes time and struggle.
but if I think in this life do not care about rich or poor. because the poor are not necessarily sad, the rich are not necessarily happy.
because in my opinion a rich person is a person who is always grateful in any circumstances.
but don't be lazy to try, and don't give up when there are obstacles.