I like BlueWallet for small (because it's custodial) LN payments
Just so we don't confuse potential users. Blue Wallet's Lightning wallet is custodial. The standard Bitcoin wallet is non-custodial.
Correct. I specifically mentioned LN because I use another wallet for on-chain Bitcoin.
I'd like to see a desktop version of BlueWallet for custodial LN.
Amazingly, I don't think any desktop wallet offers that!