Pyarry bhai jaan iss ki misal yun ly len. Ap ky pas 10 rupy thy us my sy ap ny 1 rupya kissi ko dy diya. So ap ky pas kitny bachy. 9 hi naa.
Yani agar ap ny merit dy diya matlab ap ky pas wo khatam ho gaya. Ab next person ky pas chala gaya.
Or ik bat or zehan my rakhen agar ap ny ek dafa merit kissi ko dy diya to ap wo merit wapis bhi nai ly sakty han albata wo shakas ap ko 1 sendable merit hasil karny ky bad wapis kar dy to wo ik alag bat hai.
Or ap ik hi shaks ko sary merits nai dy sakty yani ap ky pas merits aaty jaa rahy hen or aap ik hi shakas ko dy rahy hen or wo bhi ap ko merits back dy raha hai to ye merit abuse my aa jata hai jiss sy account par alt ka tag lag ky negative trust mily gaa yaa ap ka account ban ho jaye ga.

Iss liye jab bhi ap merit den to sure hon ky kis ko merit dy rahy hen. Kahin ye abuse my to nai ataa so in sab chizon kaa khayal rakhen.
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Thanks bahi , Ap ne ache se samja deya buhat confused ta ma es hawale pr ab muje lagta ha sari confusion khtm ho gaye haa . Ap  seniors agr na hote tu ptaa nahe hamara kia hotaa hhhh joke taa pr honestly speaking ma jab ayaa ta tu muje kuch samj nahe ata ta pir ahesta ahesta ap seniors ne samjaa deya . Tu aj ma sub ka shukrya ada krna chahta hun jenho ne meri madaad ki ar muje yaqeen ha ap log muje ar be help or suppprt karengee.