Starting in this forum wasn't easy, it takes a lot of learning, observation and questioning but as times progress you will understand yourself fit in for the systems.
It's really not that hard if you have prior experience on other forums or you know how to follow rules and be a good observant, one of the mistakes of newbies is not aware of the forum rules, I guess they are used on social media like Facebook where they are not moderated and they set their own rule on their profile post.
Many of us may I grown more than this but we break system rules and regulations but yet the good moderators keep giving us good counseling and guides. Your journey is never in vain, it may take a while but is counting.
I've seen newbies promoting Ponzi schemes and even defending them without knowing what a Ponzi scheme is, this is why so many newbies are getting tagged promoting projects that the community doesn't want to be here.