Starting in this forum wasn't easy, it takes a lot of learning, observation and questioning but as times progress you will understand yourself fit in for the systems.
This kind is the type that comes with learning, it's never an easy task to give to learning new things because unknowingly to you you're already paying the orice to acquire what you're learning, sooner or later you will definitely finds it interesting to have taken such decision at first place.
Many of us may I grown more than this but we break system rules and regulations but yet the good moderators keep giving us good counseling and guides.
It's not every mistakes that you made lead to getting banned as long as it does not go against the forum's rules and regulations, being a newbie you can make little mistakes but going against the rules shouldn't be accounted as mistake but ignorance which you will eventually had to pay for the consequences.