I set the fee for 1 sat /vb when receiving the transaction.
For next time: 1.1 sat/vbyte puts you ahead of the many low fee transactions.Thanks everyone I apprecite the help!
I really like Loyce's advice above @ 1.1 sat/vb.
Which leads me to another question.
Would the "no priority" transaction fee on the mempool.space website be overpaying if my future transactions are not urgent?
I just don't want to have the transaction somehow disappear or be in limbo indefinitely
Thanks again!