Ok then how about with mempoolfullrbf=1 ? even if transaction is not rbf, it is possible to aband transaction?
With
mempoolfullrbf=1, you only ask your node to to accept and broadcast replacement transactions with higher fee even if the original transaction hasn't been flagged as RBF.
There is no way to change other nodes setting and almost all nodes will reject any transaction spending same UTXO(s) as an non-RBF transaction.