Bitcoin is not your Goldsmith or some banks you build at home that you can control anytime you like.
I think you should get your facts straight mate because bitcoin is indeed giving you the chance to be your own bank and yes, you can control it anytime you like. If you somehow hold a large sum of coins in your portfolio, be sure that you are not that dumb to place your coins in a hot wallet. Make sure that it's a non-custodial wallet, so that you can control it any time you like and move it anytime you like.
My questions is people keeping bitcoin for too long and begins to hear story?
Because why not? You should just need to know more about bitcoin and do your own research to know why there's a lot of people if not, majority of people who hodl bitcoin for long-term.