There are many things happening now at many homes ,mother's should pay good attention to our kids and some certain behaviours too. Things we should be concerned about our children
1 bullied in school
2 some relatives who abuses females ,such as uncle's
3 to know when kids are comfortable with some certain things ,we should also give our kids right to compliment in some cases like kids bringing out creative acts and suggestion

So let's talk more ETC ??
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It's important to pay close attention to our kids because observation helps us monitor their progress, uniqueness, abilities, skills talents and even their fears.parents needs to learn the art of  sitting, looking, listening and communication with these children,boys and girls alike,as kids show how they feel by what they do and  the way they do things.you can only extract information from them pertaining to your observation through intimacy built over a period of time.They communicate through their voices,posture, gesture and facial expression.without spending quality time together with them discussing and chatting,you may never know how and what they might be going through from time to time and this will further break them because they will see you the parent as one who really doesn't care.Through keen observation you get to find out and correct a whole lot of things that would have being detrimental to them.